Earlier in the week I was packing with someone else in the same aisle, normally something which occurs if there's a lot in it. Sometimes this happens and I'm silent for hours; this time we struck up a conversation.
"So, are you friends with many of the women here?" he asked.
"Friendly, not friends ... I find it really hard to make friends with women. We tend to not have much in common." For some reason I felt garrulous and open, and all of a sudden I didn't care about putting on a 'normal' face. "I don't care for going out and drinking every night, and I don't have kids to discuss. I'd rather stay at home and watch some science fiction tv show instead."
"Oh, you like science fiction?"
"Yeah."
"Me too. I was thinking about going to
Supernova this year. I thought about cosplaying."
I was surprised, taken aback at the casualness of this mention, of the "pop expo" (not really a convention, not really), and of cosplay. His courage to mention even the word in a mundane setting.
"I thought about going as Mario, or maybe Luigi." Definitely a Mario.
The rest of the evening was spent in a frenzy of conversation of SFness, conventions, various movies, gaming tie-ins, and general nerdiness.
It felt like coming out.
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